Please Understand Me.

“If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.

Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.

Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.

Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.

I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right — for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.”

This is an excerpt from the book Please Understand Me 2 by David Keirsey.

Love Aurora xx

Chakras, how balanced are yours?

Hi everyone, I have been AWOL for a little while as I was using all my energy to heal my own cold weather woes, the dreaded lurgey!

So it made me think about balancing myself to be able to get back into helping people again and the best way I find to do this is to balance my Chakras.

The word ‘Chakra’ is derived from the Sanskrit word meaning ‘wheel’. If we were able to see Chakras we would observe a wheel of energy continuously revolving or rotating. Each chakra rotates at a different speed and vibration and also relates to different areas in the body and resonates with colour and sound.

One of the reasons that many people fall ill is because their chakras become out of alignment, they are ‘imbalanced’ or there are blockages which restrict the free flow of the body’s energy.

Below is some basic information on the location, colours and effects of the Chakras. They are of course much more complex and the colours can vary greatly.

There are 7 Major Chakras;

1/Root Chakra
The Root Chakra is located at the base of the spine (pubic bone) and is red in color. The Root Chakra is associated with physical security and safety, money, basic needs for yourself and loved ones, and self-esteem. Fears or obsessions relating to physical needs and safety can put the Root Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Root Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to reproductive organs and sexual vitality and problems with the lower back, hips, and legs.

2/Sacral Chakra
The Sacral Chakra is located just below the naval and is orange in color. The Sacral Chakra is associated with physical pleasures, confidence, addictions, appearance, and relationships with others. Fears or obsessions relating to physical pleasures and what others think of you can put the Sacral Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Sacral Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to the lymphatic system, lower intestines and digestive system.

3/Solar Plexus
Chakra The Solar Plexus Chakra is located just above the naval and is yellow in color. The Solar Plexus Chakra is associated with personal power, and control of yourself or others. Fears or obsessions relating to control and power can put the Solar Plexus Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Solar Plexus Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to digestive difficulties, liver problems, and food allergies.

4/Heart Chakra
The Heart Chakra is located in the middle of the chest and is green in colour although pink is often also associated with the Heart Chakra and the colour I prefer to use. The Heart Chakra is associated with love, relationships, attachments, forgiveness and emotions. Fears or obsessions relating to love and relationships, or the need to forgive others or yourself can put the Heart Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Heart Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to the heart, circulatory and respiratory system.

5/Throat Chakra
The Throat Chakra is located at the throat and is light or dark blue in color. The Throat Chakra is associated with communication and creativity. Fears or obsessions relating to communicating and speaking your truth can put the Throat Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Throat Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to back pain, ear infections, throat irritations, skin irritations or thyroid problems.

6/Third Eye/Brow Chakra
The Third Eye or Brow Chakra is located on the forehead and is Indigo in colour. The Third Eye Chakra is associated with intuition, dreaming, and beliefs. Fears or obsessions about beliefs or trusting your intuition can put the Third Eye Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Third Eye Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to headaches, vision or dulled senses.

7/Crown Chakra
The Crown Chakra is located on the top of the head and is purple or violet however I have seen it as white or even golden. The Crown Chakra is associated with knowledge, understanding, wisdom and connection to the Source. Fears or obsessions about understanding and compassion can put the Crown Chakra out of balance. An unbalanced Crown Chakra often manifests as physical problems related to our head and nervous system, or as depression or a feeling of lack of purpose. It is important to open this one as it is the Chakra through which you obtain the highest understanding and the highest knowledge.

To help awaken and unblock your Chakras you can use: Meditation, guided visualisation, energy work. I like to use drum healing, crystals and MAP Healing. During any crystal healing session all Chakras should be be open to help them all move freely again.

If you would like to book a Chakra Healing please click HERE

Love Aurora xx

Fully Booked

Thank you to everyone for your wonderful support, it has been such a joy and pleasure to be able to work with so many of you, knowing that I am helping you to alleviate your pain and help with your growth means the world to me and makes what I do worth while

As of today I am fully booked until December and can’t take on any new clients for now, so I encourage you to put your name on the waiting list in case I have any cancellations.  To do this please click HERE.

I will still be updating the blog, keeping you up to date with the Flare Repair and also working on new and exciting ways to make my services available and accessible to everyone.

Keep an eye out on the web page for new –

Meditation MP3’s

Healing MP3’s

Pain Relief MP3’s

Exciting new Flare Coach Service.

Plus more….

Blessings to you all

Aurora xx

Judgement

I saw this on a wall about 15 years ago and it spoke to me, very profoundly, it was on a wall at a court house, I only just found it again: 

Pray don’t find fault with the man who limps
or stumbles along the road,
unless you have worn the shoes he wears
or struggled beneath his load.
There may be tacks in his shoes that hurt,
though hidden away from view,
or the burden he bears, placed on your back
might cause you to stumble too.
Don’t sneer at the man who’s down today
unless you have felt the blow
that caused his fall or felt the shame
that only the fallen know.
You may be strong, but still the blows
that were his if dealt to you,
in the selfsame way, at the selfsame time,
might cause you to stagger too.
Don’t be too harsh with the man who sins
or pelt him with word or stone,
unless you are sure, yea, doubly sure,
that you have no sins of your own –
for you know perhaps if the tempter’s voice
should whisper as softly to you
as it did to him when he went astray,
it might cause you to stumble too. 

Unknown

 

 

I am Fibro

By Terri Been

Hi…My name is Fibromyalgia, and I’m an Invisible Chronic Illness. I am now velcroed to you for life. Others around you can’t see me or hear me, but YOUR body feels me. I can attack you anywhere and anyhow I please. I can cause severe pain or, if I’m in a good mood, I can just cause you to ache all over.

Remember when you and Energy ran around together and had fun? I took Energy from you, and gave you Exhaustion. Try to have fun now!

I also took Good Sleep from you and, in its place, gave you Brain Fog. I can make you tremble internally or make you feel cold or hot when everyone else feels normal.

Oh, yeah, I can make you feel anxious or depressed, too. If you have something planned, or are looking forward to a great day, I can take that away, too.

You didn’t ask for me. I chose you for various reasons: that virus you had that you never recovered from, or that car accident, or maybe it was the years of abuse and trauma. Well, anyway, I’m here to stay!

I hear you are going to see a doctor who can get rid of me. I’m rolling on the floor, laughing. Just try. You have to go to many, many doctors until you find one who can help you effectively. You will be put on pain pills, sleeping pills, energy pills, told you are suffering from anxiety or depression, given a TENs unit, get massaged, told if you just sleep and exercise properly I will go away, told to think positively, poked, prodded, and MOST OF ALL, not taken as seriously as you feel when you cry to the doctor how debilitating life is every day. Your family, friends, and coworkers will all listen to you until they just get tired of hearing about how I make you feel, and that I’m a debilitating disease. Some of them will say things like “Oh, you are just having a bad day” or “Well, remember, you can’t do the things you use to do 20 years ago: not hearing that you said 20DAYS ago. Some will start talking behind your back, while you slowly feel that you are losing your dignity trying to make them understand, especially when you are in the middle of a conversation with a “Normal” person and can’t remember what you were going to say next.

In closing, {I was hoping that I kept this part a secret}, but I guess you already found out…the ONLY place you will get any support and understanding in dealing with me is with other people with Fibromyalgia.

Thank you to my lovely friend Linda xx

 

Lost and Found

About a week ago Mr D was heading to the kitchen to make a cup of tea and as he walked through the door I saw a spirit above his head.  In need of a rest I tried to ignore it but it was rather persistent. I knew it was for Mr D and asked what it needed to tell me, all I could get was the name “pet”….I was rather perplexed by this and began to ask if it was a name of a person and could they elaborate a bit, I knew the spirit was Mr D’s grandmother as this was coming through very strongly.  As I asked for more information around “pet” a man came in very assertively and told her to stop now. That was the clarification I needed to know it was indeed Mr D’s grandmother as his grandfather was quite a strong man who was in control.

When he returned with my cup of tea I asked him if he knew of someone called “pet” or someone with a short sharp name like that, he racked his brains for ages, trying to remember past relatives and could come up with a few names that matched like “Thyp” and “Pat” but I didn’t feel these were right.

The next time we spoke to Mr D’s mum we asked her and she confirmed the information about her father being the one to try and stop the information coming through and she told us she would have a think about it and let us know.

A few days later I woke up from a dream, I had dreamt that a man was showing me a cat draped over his arms, it was fluffy and very peaceful looking, I asked if it was OK, he told me that the cat had died, that it was a cat that used to be in a classroom with lots of children and that the teacher had discovered it when she went in that morning.

That night we received a text message saying that Mr D’s mums beloved cat that she had for more than 15 years had passed away. It was at that time that I realised that her mother was here to let her know it was OK as she was going to help during this time and that “pet” was refering to the pet cat.

She then went on to tell us through her tears that she was about to go to the school, where she reads to children and that would make her feel better. We then realised what the dream was about.

It gave a lot of comfort to the family and also to me to know that on the other side, they help not only us to pass over smoothly but our furry friends as well.

Aurora T xx

 

 

Spirit Guides

Spirit Guides

We each have Spirit Guides who have been with us since the day we were conceived, watching over us and ready to offer helpful advice whenever we call on them for help.

If you haven’t already contacted your Spirit Guides, A Spirit Guide Reading will help you to meet each other. Once you make that connection and can communicate with your guides it helps with, not only your insight but with every day life.

Spirit Guides are higher beings on the Other Side who at some point in time lived on the Earth and therefore have life experience. Now they happily live in Spirit and selflessly devote themselves to helping us once we learn to communicate with them.

Your Guide can help you with every aspect of your life: career, health, relationships, spirituality, finances, decision making…you name it. If you can think of a question, your Guide will more than likely give you an answer to help you with your situation.

You can think of your Spirit Guide as your very wise best friend on the Other Side. Once you meet, your life will become incredibly exciting as you gain advice that helps you with all aspects of your journey.

Allow yourself time to get to know your Guide well. Practise communicating with them whenever you can and you will soon become accustomed to your Guide’s voice.

Connecting with your Guide suddenly makes you feel much more knowledgeable and inspired, and your Guide will often give you helpful insights that you know don’t come from your own mind.

Once you have met your Guide you have begun a wonderful relationship that will hold for your entire life. So if you haven’t yet met your Guide, now is an excellent time to formally introduce yourselves!

To book a Spirit Guide Reading please click HERE

New Web Site is up and running!!

After many many months of hard work from both myself and MrD, the new web site is up and running and I am so proud of it.

I decided to change the whole look of the web site for a few reasons and after a lot of thinking and comunicating with my clients and friends.

I have a lot of followers and clients whom due to illness are much more comfortable using an iPhone or iPad or other mobile device which wouldn’t load the flash on the old web page, also I wanted to make it user friendly for visually impaired people as well, I tried really hard to accomodate every ones needs and I hope I have succeeded!

Thank you to everyone for your patience.

The new web site can be found HERE

The Power of Words

I really love this wonderful short film illustrating the power your words have on creating your reality and how changing them can truly change your life.