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Please Understand Me.

“If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.

Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.

Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.

Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.

I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right — for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.”

This is an excerpt from the book Please Understand Me 2 by David Keirsey.

Love Aurora xx

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Fully Booked

Thank you to everyone for your wonderful support, it has been such a joy and pleasure to be able to work with so many of you, knowing that I am helping you to alleviate your pain and help with your growth means the world to me and makes what I do worth while

As of today I am fully booked until December and can’t take on any new clients for now, so I encourage you to put your name on the waiting list in case I have any cancellations.  To do this please click HERE.

I will still be updating the blog, keeping you up to date with the Flare Repair and also working on new and exciting ways to make my services available and accessible to everyone.

Keep an eye out on the web page for new –

Meditation MP3’s

Healing MP3’s

Pain Relief MP3’s

Exciting new Flare Coach Service.

Plus more….

Blessings to you all

Aurora xx

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Lost and Found

About a week ago Mr D was heading to the kitchen to make a cup of tea and as he walked through the door I saw a spirit above his head.  In need of a rest I tried to ignore it but it was rather persistent. I knew it was for Mr D and asked what it needed to tell me, all I could get was the name “pet”….I was rather perplexed by this and began to ask if it was a name of a person and could they elaborate a bit, I knew the spirit was Mr D’s grandmother as this was coming through very strongly.  As I asked for more information around “pet” a man came in very assertively and told her to stop now. That was the clarification I needed to know it was indeed Mr D’s grandmother as his grandfather was quite a strong man who was in control.

When he returned with my cup of tea I asked him if he knew of someone called “pet” or someone with a short sharp name like that, he racked his brains for ages, trying to remember past relatives and could come up with a few names that matched like “Thyp” and “Pat” but I didn’t feel these were right.

The next time we spoke to Mr D’s mum we asked her and she confirmed the information about her father being the one to try and stop the information coming through and she told us she would have a think about it and let us know.

A few days later I woke up from a dream, I had dreamt that a man was showing me a cat draped over his arms, it was fluffy and very peaceful looking, I asked if it was OK, he told me that the cat had died, that it was a cat that used to be in a classroom with lots of children and that the teacher had discovered it when she went in that morning.

That night we received a text message saying that Mr D’s mums beloved cat that she had for more than 15 years had passed away. It was at that time that I realised that her mother was here to let her know it was OK as she was going to help during this time and that “pet” was refering to the pet cat.

She then went on to tell us through her tears that she was about to go to the school, where she reads to children and that would make her feel better. We then realised what the dream was about.

It gave a lot of comfort to the family and also to me to know that on the other side, they help not only us to pass over smoothly but our furry friends as well.

Aurora T xx

 

 

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Our Deepest Fear

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson

I love this saying and I was  quite surprised that it was written for Nelson Mandela by Marianne Williamson, It speaks volumes about how we have so much power inside us to be what ever we want to be but that we scare ourselves let the fear stop us. And if we just believe we can be what ever we want to be, then we can and will.  And have every right to be!

 

That’s my thought on it anyway 🙂

 

Aurora

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Fighting My PCOS Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome Part 1

**Please note I am very graphic with my details in this blog**


When I was young about 15 I  suffered with heavy periods and mind numbing cramps when I had my period, so, as they do, I was put on the pill, that lasted all of about a month, I felt so ill I went off it and forgot about it, learning to deal with the pain instead, using hot packs and a Panadol.

As I got older, around 17 -19 I had horrible pains, which I would later learn through my own investigations was Mittelschmerz, lower abdominal pain that occurs in women at or around the time of an egg is released from the ovaries (ovulation). However I was told it was stress and to just relax and when that didn’t help and I actually passed out from the pain one day, I has in hospital having my appendix out!  That was the “diagnosis”

I continued to have pain and as I also had undiagnosed Fibromyalgia, I wasn’t sure half the time where the pain was coming from, I simply hurt all over and now I was developing new symptoms, hemorrhaging, massive clots and just feeling sick all the time, doctor after doctor would see me and send me away with new medications, which never worked and only made things worse, I was diagnosed with the same banner they put people in when they fit into the “too hard basket” depression! I had never had a depressed day in my life so I refused to believe it and also refused to take the anti-depressants they were trying to get me to take.

I went on about my life, got married and worked, usually with a lot of pain, but I just thought I was lazy and so I pushed through, I started to gain weight around 19, being told now that THIS was what the problem was, I needed to lose weight and all my problems would go away, I hasten to add I wasn’t even overweight, merely well-developed and curvaceous, however the weight did continue to pile on and then all of a sudden I missed several periods, I would go over a year with no period at all, “lose weight, you’ll be right” was all I was told, so I did, I lost weight and now my periods returned with a vengeance, back to the hemorrhaging, massive clots and just feeling sick all the time, now I was passing hard polyps and in and out of hospital having Dilation (or dilatation) and curettage (D&C) they would find large polyps and remove them then I would go home and nothing would change.

One day after D&C I was recovering in the hospital when I felt this horrible pain in my stomach, as I had put up with so much pain for so many years I just laid there, when the nurse came in I asked her for some pain relief, “you don’t look like someone in pain” she said, I rolled around in pain for a while then felt so sick I was on my way to the bathroom when I felt one of those horrible gushes and onto the floor was blood and a large polyp, when I pressed the button and the nurse came in she looked at me, looked at the floor and said “oh my you must have been in a lot of pain” duh!!

The doctor told me there wasn’t much to report and to go home, I did, and I continued on the cycle of heavy periods and no periods. Not game enough to continue seeing a doctor or telling anyone how bad I felt, I simply continued on.

After many years of this roller coaster of pain, hemorrhaging, anaemia, fatigue and sheer frustration, I wanted to get pregnant, but by now I was not even having a period, at all again!!. I was not coping at all well, especially when the doctors told me I would never be able to conceive due to the lack of ovulation.

To be continued…………

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Just because you cant see the wind….

“Just because you cant see the wind, doesn’t mean it does not exist” Aurora T

I have been asked what the meaning is behind this quote and here is the answer..

I felt it covered everything I do and I believe in, Mind, Body and Soul.

Mind: I believe that what we think we attract, so even though we can’t see the energetic level these thoughts vibrate on, sooner or later you will know it, as you will attract those things into your life.

Body: As I suffer from illness’ that can’t be seen as such, like a broken leg can be seen when it is plastered, it doesn’t mean that it isn’t real. I have learnt to never judge people unless I know the facts and this has come about from being judged myself when I have needed to wear sunglasses in a bright shopping center for example as I have had a raging migraine and no one to go to the shops for me, and countless times people have said to me “you don’t look sick”

Soul: I can get information from the other side, and I feel things about people, why? I don’t know, I see it as a gift and I use it wisely, however I can’t see it, but it does exist.

And that is where the quote comes from, I use it, I believe in it and I love it!
Aurora T

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Chakra Healing and Balancing

There are two main ways gemstones are used on chakras — placement on a single chakra at a time or placement on all chakras at once. One can experiment to see what works best for them.

Chakras are the 7 main energy centers of the body according to Eastern medicine.

They are in the center of the body, starting at the base of the spine and running up to the top of the head.

  1. Root/Base Chakra
  2. Sex/Navel Chakra
  3. Stomach/Solar Plexus Chakra
  4. Heart Chakra
  5. Throat Chakra
  6. Brow/Third Eye Chakra
  7. Crown Chakra

To find a chakra:

  1. Use a gemstone and circle front of body in alarge circle over where a chakra should be
    • many gemstones will work — but I find Black Onyx easiest
    • one can do this without a gemstone after practice but using a gemstone makes it much easier
  2. Slowly decrease the size of circle following the energy.
    • With Black Onyx, you can feel where the Chakra is by where you place it on your body. One’s body will tingle where chakras are.
    • Other gemstones can be more subtle. The gemstone simply feels like it is being lead to the Chakra.

Single Chakras

Often one simply wants to work on a single chakra. Simply place a gemstone or strand of gemstones on a Chakra and keep them there from 3-25 minutes. I prefer using clear optical quality quartz on chakras. However, here are the stones that others recommend on each chakra.

  1. Root/Base Chakra: Black Onyx/Obsidian
  2. Sex/Navel Chakra: Carnelian
  3. Stomach/Solar Plexus Chakra: Citrine
  4. Heart Chakra: Rose Quartz/Ruby
  5. Throat Chakra: Indigo (translucent Sodalight)/Purple Rainbow Fluorite
  6. Brow/Third Eye Chakra: Amethyst/Aquamarine/Lapis Lazuli/Clear Quartz
  7. Crown Chakra: Amethyst/Clear Quartz

One can always substitute clear quartz sphere or strand of frosted quartz for any chakra. Other people have different charts. Experiment. Find what works best for you! If a stone ever feels very uncomfortable, I recommend removing it.

Another way to do single chakra therapy is to take a single stone and sequentially work your way up the chakras. Ie. put malachite on your root chakra for 3-5 minutes; then on your sex chakra for 3-5 minutes, etc. This teaches you multiple things:

  • How a stone feels on each chakra
  • Which chakra it works best on (or does it feel good on all)
  • If the stone works well on more than one chakra

My favorite gemstone to do this with is emerald (a 2″ ring of beads works GREAT). My clients have found this very healing.

All Chakras

The easiest therapy is to take 7 clear quartz spheres or 7 strands of frosted quartz and place them on all your chakras – starting at the base chakra and working your way up. Let them stay on your chakras for 5-25 minutes. Remove the strands in the opposite order — starting from the crown chakra. You may wish to wear a strand of frosted quartz when done to help maintain your balance.

I have tried this therapy w/ spheres and strands of several types of gemstones. When using other gemstones, I recommend using with spheres.

  • I tried this once with strands of black opal and it was very overwhelming.
  • Green Aventurine felt healing but didn’t help nearly as much as putting it directly on an organ that needed it.
  • Amethyst was very uplifting — but it seemed to be much better on the higher chakras singly or directly on an organ such as stomach or liver
  • Rose quartz felt good — but my body wanted more rose quartz on heart chakra than on other chakras
  • Rhodocrusite was too strong for me. Try it for a very very short time (15 seconds) on a single chakra. Always follow it by something soothing/healing.

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